Kathryn Kelly sitting on a porch with her three children on her lap, all wearing backpacks on their first day of school.

Meet Kathryn

My Journey

I’m Kathryn Kelly, MA — an Autistic, ADHD Educator, Advocate, and Coach with a deep commitment to neurodivergent wellness.

I hold a BA in Theology (Ethics) and Linguistics from Georgetown University and an MA in Religion (Ethics) from Yale Divinity School. I am also a Certified Neurodivergence Life Coach. I was preparing for a future in academia when a traumatic experience in my twenties shifted my path toward healing, caregiving, and raising three remarkable children.

After Yale, I spent two decades immersed in self-directed study across a wide range of wellness disciplines — including psychology, mindfulness, trauma recovery, plant-based nutrition, and fitness instruction. Despite my best efforts, I could not shake a persistent sense that something fundamental about me was “wrong” — and the systems around me reinforced that message.

Discovering my own layers of neurodivergence didn’t erase my challenges overnight, but it transformed how I understood them. It restored my self-trust. The chronic tension I had carried for so long wasn’t a flaw, a failure, or a even a response to trauma stuck on repeat— it was my brilliantly loyal nervous system trying to protect and guide me in a world not designed for my wiring.

Over time, I learned to hear my body’s signals as a form of wisdom rather than weakness. That shift became the foundation of Love & Moxie — and of my personal mission to help others reclaim their wellbeing by embracing and celebrating their neurodivergent design, not resisting it or masking to fit in.

Upper Valley, VT / NH

Map of the Upper Valley highlighting towns where Love & Moxie offers in-person coaching: Hanover, Lebanon, Etna, Norwich, Quechee, and White River Junction.

Since moving to the Upper Valley in 2005, I’ve raised three kids, healed a great deal, and discovered my true passion: educating and advocating for neurodiversity.

I completed the Leadership Upper Valley program through Vital Communities in June, which deepened my appreciation for this region’s strong values around health, lifelong learning, and the power of our connection to nature.

Kathryn Kelly and her adult son smiling on a snowy winter hike at Lyme Hill in the Upper Valley, NH, both wearing black jackets.
Map of the Upper Valley highlighting towns where Love & Moxie offers in-person coaching: Hanover, Lebanon, Etna, Norwich, Quechee, and White River Junction.
Kathryn Kelly lying on the ground with two of her children on her back while her youngest crawls nearby, outdoors among apple trees at Riverview Farm near Lebanon, NH.
Kathryn Kelly smiling outdoors after a swim at Post Pond in Lyme, NH, with a tree and water in the background.

Why I Do This Work

Love & Moxie holds that personal healing and collective transformation are

deeply interconnected.

Neurodivergence — whether Autism, ADHD, or other traits — isn’t something that fades after childhood and thank goodness!  It’s integral to who we are and shapes how we move through the world.

It’s time to redefine wellness so it embraces neurodiversity rather than measuring everyone by a single norm.
Let’s see neurodivergence through a new, affirming lens — and co-create systems that genuinely support and uplift the full spectrum of human experience.

Three siblings sitting together on a lifeguard chair about eight years ago, smiling with their arms around each other under a clear sky.
Heart drawn in the sand on a beach, representing self-love and empowerment for neurodivergent adults.
Close-up of Kathryn Kelly smiling at the pond, with long brown hair partially across her face and sunlight streaming across the lens.
Painted brick wall with stripes of color and the message “Make someone feel loved today,” reflecting the values of Love & Moxie.